Heb 12:6-7 KJV 6 For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth, and scourgeth every son whom he receiveth. 7 If ye endure chastening, God dealeth with you as with sons; for what son is he whom the father chasteneth not?
Rev 3:19 KJV As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten: be zealous therefore, and repent.
Chastening is a process that every believer must go through. It comes with growth.
It’s a molding experience for you to become who God wants you to become.
It may be painful but the end is full of joy. But remember it is always out of love.